My Moment with Emanuela

giannaI had the opportunity to participate in the “March for Life” in Rome on Mother’s Day in 2016.  This is an annual event where all with the same belief in the dignity of human life gather to join in prayers and march in faith to offer hope to a world of despair.  During the event, I had the honor of meeting Emanuela Molla, the daughter of St Gianna Molla, the heroic mother who followed the example of Christ and chose to give up on cancer treatment during pregnancy, hence, her own life, in order to save the life of her unborn child, Emanuela.  I shared this encounter and the heroic story of St Gianna online, which raised many questions on whether St Gianna’s suffering and sacrifice was really necessary and worthwhile.

Why are moral absolutes important for Catholic morality?  Why do some people reject the idea of moral absolutes simply on the basis of a disordered view of suffering? Continue reading

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The Cross and the Cell Phone

instagramI kind of hate Instagram.  I like it in theory- a place where we can share images that communicate and share our lives, our hopes, our passions.  But I hate the twisted and vicious cross I’ve seen it become in my 15-year-old daughter’s life.

When “The Girl” (name withheld to protect the immature) turned 13, my husband and I gave her filtered access to Instagram as a rite of passage, but with a catch. Her account is on my phone, and I go through it daily.  We decided that this social media journey was going to be one that we walked together.  She didn’t need to worry about hiding anything, because I could see it. End of story. My job was to set ground rules, talk with her about what I saw, and listen to her as she shared what she thought.  This is part of the modern teenage journey, and ALL teenage journeys are messy. I promised myself to walk with her and not over-react to the messiness, but try instead to make it a learning experience. Continue reading

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Frankenstein vs. the Pope

doctorFrankenstein has been the subject of many movies, some campy classics and some rather awful.

Frankenstein with Boris Karloff (1931, is likely THE Frankenstein flick, although there were earlier versions – and a couple dozen later ones.

I admit my favorite in the genre is Bride of Frankenstein (1935). There is something about Elsa Lanchester’s piercing eyes and frizzy hair that touched my taste for the terrifying. Continue reading

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5 hidden gifts in gratitude

gratitudeBeing grateful is more of a gift than a duty.  Something in us changes when we are grateful.  We glimpse our daily reality in a different way, like scuba diving below the surface of the ocean and discovering a world of beauty that exists just out of sight.  When we are grateful, we see below the surface of our busy lives and discover treasures that were hidden just out of sight. Here are five of them.

  1. Something in us changes when we are grateful. A sense of gratitude gives us a peace and contentment that shifts our perspective on our lives.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Phil 4:6-7 Continue reading

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Theological Reflection: Genesis 12-22

faithGenesis Chapter 12 to 22 is about the “Cycle of Abraham”, which described how Abraham was the chosen one by God, in which He would establish the covenant with (CCC 72), and the strong faith demonstrated by Abraham throughout the chapters.  “By faith, Abraham obeyed when he was called to go out to a place which he was to receive as an inheritance; and he went out, not knowing where he was to go.  By faith, he lived as a stranger and pilgrim in the promised land.  By faith, Sarah was given to conceive the son of the promise. And by faith, Abraham offered his only son in sacrifice(CCC 145). Continue reading

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How to Stop Freaking Out (with some Help from the Saints)

Thank God for the communion of saints.  Remarkably, there isn’t much in our crazy busy lives that the saints haven’t dealt with in some other iteration.  Even though the world we live in seems angrier and more anxious than ever before, the basics of human nature haven’t changed much. We have the same faults, sins, struggles, and hopes that we have always had, through dressed in modern circumstances.

Anger and anxiety have tried to strangle people and cultures with their icy hands for centuries.   Like good friends who have walked a road before us, the saints give us advice and hope for living a life of joy, peace and courage in the midst of the storm.

saintsWinning the War against Anger

We are living in the age of rage.  Hearing the news or scrolling through social media, it seems everyone is angry about something or someone.  Since Cain killed Abel, anger, also known as ‘wrath,’ has been a part of the human existence. The saints were not immune to this sin either.

St. John, the apostle of love, was once known as one of the ‘Sons of Thunder’ who wanted to call down fire from heaven to destroy a town that snubbed them.  You may be thinking that if you had the chance to spend three years at Jesus’s side, it would cure you of your anger too.  Well, maybe. Perhaps that’s an important lesson.  Prayer changes us.  St. John lived prayer.  He rested on Christ’s chest at the last supper.  He was so aware of the love of God for him that he came to name his identity as ‘the apostle that Jesus loved.’  That’s how he knew himself.  Spending more time in prayer, especially in adoration, changes our hearts and makes them less thunderous and more loving. Continue reading

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Genesis 1-11 and Salvation

salvationGenesis Chapter 1 to 11 was like a prologue to God’s salvation of man.  It showed a repetitive pattern of man sinning against God, hence, God’s punishment, and led to God’s salvation for man.  This ultimately brought out the key message of God’s infinite love and mercy for man and His preparation for the salvation of man, since the beginning.  ‘From the beginning until “the fullness of time,” Word and Spirit remain hidden, but it is at work. God’s Spirit prepares for the time of the Messiah’ (CCC 702).

Although man continually and repeatedly sinned against God, i.e. original sin by Adam and Eve (Gen 3:6), Cain killing Abel (Gen 4:8), Lamech being the first bigamist (Gen 4:23), the wickedness of man (6:5) and the Tower of Babel (Gen 11:4) etc., which God grieved and was sorry that He had made man on earth (Gen 6:6), God still loved man and never ceased the opportunities for man to repent.  Again and again, He offered a covenant to man (CCC 55), just as He established a covenant with Noah and blessed man after the flood (Gen 9:11), so man could return to the loving relationship with God, just as when they were first being created.  For He wishes to give eternal life to all those who seek salvation by patience in well-doing (CCC 55). Continue reading

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What Makes You Worry?

worry“Do not let your hearts be troubled. (Jn 14:1)” Our Lord doesn’t leave a margin here. Worries are a red flag; something is wrong. We are never supposed to worry. He doesn’t say “do not let your hearts be troubled too much.” No. It is never his will that we be weighed down.

“Cast all your worries upon him, because he cares for you. (1 Pet 5:7)” Peace is God’s gift and a sign of his presence: “The Lord blesses his people with peace. (PS 29:11)” It’s the melody that resounds throughout Christ’s entire life: “Peace on earth! (Lk 2:14)” “Peace I leave you. My peace I give you. (Jn 14:27)” “I have told you this so that you might have peace in me. (Jn 16:33)” Where Christ is, there is peace. So if we are drowned in worries? But our lives are so filled with the often deafening din of worries that we can’t hardly grasp the concept of a life without them. Is such a life even possible? Continue reading

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Embracing the Poverty of Purgatory

povertyMy response to restlessness is to fix things, or to do something that makes me feel like I’m fixing things. I remember being overwhelmed as the 23-year-old mother of a 6-week-old child and deciding that I HAD to rearrange the furniture in the living room at 3:00 in the morning.  Dragging couches and chairs, and moving everything somewhere else gave me a satisfying sense of control in the whirlwind of motherhood that had taken over my life. It changed nothing, but it made me feel better.

This pattern has repeated itself over and over in almost every are of my life.  Something is uncomfortable, so I ‘do something’ to fix it, or at least to feel like I’m in control.  Resting in restlessness has never been an option I’ve embraced. Continue reading

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Easy Love/Tough Love

commandment

When the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees,
they gathered together, and one of them,
a scholar of the law tested him by asking,
“Teacher, which commandment in the law is the greatest?”
He said to him,
“You shall love the Lord, your God,
with all your heart,
with all your soul,
and with all your mind.
This is the greatest and the first commandment.
The second is like it:
You shall love your neighbor as yourself.
The whole law and the prophets depend on these two commandments.”

Matthew 22: 34-40

The Gospel from the 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time has been rambling around in my brain for the past couple days.  It started Sunday when I read the Holy Father’s address at the Angelus in St. Peter’s Square on the “Great Commandment.” Continue reading

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